The Role of Counseling in Marital Conflict Management: An Islamic Perspective

Abstract

Upon the enactment of matrimonial ties between man and woman, the dawn of a family
comes to light, and from the combination of such familial entities, the structure of society is
constructed. The happiness of matrimonial relation, if preserved, vibrates through the
societal framework, nurturing an environment of harmony and peace. Conversely, the
occurrence of conflicts within spouses causes a flow of hostile impacts not only upon family
but also on society too, creating an environment prevalent with disorders and anxiety. It has
become increasingly evident that the intricate tapestry of matrimonial relations is decaying at
an alarming rate. The former warmth and cordiality that once categorized these relationships
are now declining, replaced by objections that change into aggressive clashes However,
Islamic Counseling that is comprised on the Quran and Hadith, provides a comprehensive
framework for guiding couples through marital challenges. It emphasizes that the marital
conflicts and hitches can be fixed or at least be lessened through consultancy. The Quran,
with its emphasis on patience, mutual respect, and compassion, فِ وُ
َ ۡعر
م
ۡ
م

َعَاِِشُوُُ ن ِبٱ
و lays the
groundwork for the ethical and moral obligations that spouses must uphold to maintain
harmony within the marriage. Along with the Hadith, which documents the sayings and
practices of the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم, offers practical examples of how conflicts can be resolved in a
manner that preserves the dignity and well-being of both parties. Islamic counseling,
therefore, integrates these foundational texts to address the emotional, psychological, and
spiritual dimensions of marital discord, ensuring that the resolution process aligns with the
couple’s faith and moral values. The positive impact of effective conflict management within
the family extends to broader societal benefits, such as reduced divorce rates and improved
emotional well-being within the community. However, this study adopts a qualitative and
descriptive methodology, combining textual analysis and thematic exploration of historical
precedents, with a thorough literature review of Islamic teachings, including Quranic verses,
Hadith, and secondary academic sources. This study also aims to investigate counseling
ethics in managing marital conflicts by focusing on the application and efficacy of the
principles of Islamic counseling.